Getting married at St. Matthew’s

Getting married at St. Matthew’s

First of all, congratulations on your engagement!

If you’re planning a church wedding, and considering St. Matthew’s as an option, the first thing to establish is whether you have the legal basis to get married in our church building.

For a marriage to be legally valid, it has to happen within a clearly-defined legal framework. Although this can seem somewhat confusing, hopefully this page will answer your initial questions about whether you are able to get married at St. Matthew’s.

For you to be able to get married at St. Matthew’s you need to fall within one of three categories.

1.  One or both of you currently live in St. Matthew’s parish.

You can download a map of the parish here. If you’re unsure whether you live in the parish or not, please get in touch with either Mike or Matt.

2.  You have a qualifying connection with St. Matthew’s.

A ‘qualifying connection’ exists if either of you

  • Were baptised at St. Matthew’s;
  • Had your confirmation entered in our register book;
  • Have at any time lived in St. Matthew’s parish for at least 6 months;
  • Have a parent who has lived in St. Matthew’s parish for at least 6 months during your lifetime;
  • Have a parent who regularly attended our Sunday services for at least 6 months during your lifetime;
  • Have a parent or grandparent who was married at St. Matthew’s

3.  You are regular attenders at St. Matthew’s 

If you don’t live in our parish, or have one of the qualifying connections outlined above, then the only legal basis on which you can get married at St. Matthew’s is if you have regularly attended our Sunday services, (i.e. at least once a month), for at least 6 months. In that case you have also established a qualifying connection with us by being a ‘habitual worshipper’.

If you would like to explore getting married at St. Matthew’s further, the next thing to do is to attend a 10.30am Sunday service. You can then talk to Mike or Matt afterwards.